The Great British Sewing Bee


Well with a few crikey and Crumbs  comments the lovely, slightly gauche , 1940s Claire won the Sewing Bee.
She wasn't a hugger
She didn't shout or cry or  emote very much,
She just kept prodding her specs and got on with the job

But her mum loved her so very much and her best friends were people from work that respected her

TODAY, MARIA OPENS ANOTHER PAGE IN HER PAST LIFE DIARY

Maria is enjoying her visit back to the 1900's in San Francisco.  She has no desire to return to 2020 and all of its' problems.  At least for now she will find out all she can about this  other Maria that she truly has no memory of and finds it so odd  that she carried this name through to the present life.   She is amazed at the lifestyle she once had,  and the beauty of this Victorian house that was built several years after a catastrophic fire in San Francisco in 1851.  

She is hoping to eventually find out what year Maria died.   Not only was there this first Diary she found on the table but also several more upstairs in a cabinet and none of them in any particular order.  Disorder doesn't surprise Maria at all as she herself has always been an unorganized but highly creative person so she is truly enjoying the journals  - or as Maria liked to call them  her "secret diaries"...in a random manner of exploring them.

However, the big question that looms in Maria's mind is Where in the Heck is this Victorian Maria - why is her house still here along with her diaries and even more interesting is who is taking care and feeding all these wonderful birds that live in the aviaries out in back on the property.  Where is Maria - Then the thought comes - there is no Maria to meet with - It's physically impossible ...unless...     no ....don't even go further with this thought...   it's all so confusing.

The thought just came .. "Is Life just a Dream or is this Dream  a True life."  And what of the time traveling machine - is it real?

Oh Heck ...  as Scarlett would say ," after all there is tomorrow." 

So tomorrow Maria will give more thought to her questions.

(And I'm so interested to get to anything Maria might have talked about regarding the really big earthquake and fire in San Francisco in 1906.  So far nothing in those diaries.)


Serendipity and Bluebell

I thought I would share a story with you today.
Well, to be honest Going Gently is all about stories...but this one is true and is one I couldn't quite share at the time it happened.


I'm sat in a park in St Asaph.
St Asaph is the " city" where I was born.
The cathedral bell has just rung a sombre 9 am and I'm sipping coffee at a picnic table.
The sun is shining!
The city, is infact the size of a large village and I'm here waiting for Bluebell to have her brakes repaired at a nearby garage

My story starts two years ago.
I was in a very bad place. My husband had just left me ...I had no job
He had taken the car we both used and so I was reliant on friends like jason who loaned me their cars to catch up on the basics .
More importantly I had no money.
No money which to buy a car and certainly no money to pay a solicitor

My solicitor is based in St Asaph
Right next to the cathedral
I remember the day when I saw her for the first time.
She was full of  very Welsh sympathy, had an elasticaed waist on her pants and offered constant cups of coffee....
Welsh sympathy often means repeating the word " Bechod!" In a supportive way

Anyhow, I digress.

She informed me that the divorce could cost me a small fortune and I remember thinking at the time how the fuck was I going to afford that as well as financing a new car which I so desperately  needed.
It was a very bleak day indeed!

Then serendipity reared her fortunate head, as she has done so many times for me these last couple of years!
I returned home after that first consultation to a phone message...a phone message from a solicitor's firm in Manchester. A solicitor that specialised in PPI
I had requested a PPI review several months before and had totally forgotten about it, but the message was real
" you have a claim  mr Gray " it said " several in fact going back into the 1990s!"
Even the clerk sounded excited
I rang back and told her I would kiss her on the lips if what she said was true
She told me it was true with a titter!

That money paid for Bluebell
Outright!!!
It also got me onto my feet

Bluebell was my saviour. Under her steam I found a crappy job which boosted my self worth and with her I managed to sort out vet runs for poorly dogs, solicitor meetings and my independence.
Bluebell and serendipity have been good friends to me
I won't forget either of them x
Ever x
Bluebell sleeping in the shade of the church elms today