Whatever Floats Your Boat and Tickles Your Fancy Mister!!
The first gay card I received back in 1989 from Nu So what's it like being 58, gay and single? The question was posed by an interested heterosexual male in his 40s and it was a question of depth by someone with a brain Like general life, being gay, single and in my sixth decade has its challenges for sure, but typical of us gays sex is the least of our problems as thanks to the internet and apps galore it is more than easy to find a suitable bed fellow if you so need one. Men in general and gay men in particular seem to have varying rules when it comes down to sex. Many ( and more than I expected to be honest) aspire to The Cake And Eat It Brigade These are generally successful men who have a partner on their arm, some trendy furniture and a get out clause which says ( and sometimes often unsaid) that you can shag around if the mood takes you. Often there is a caveat here....which literally says don't shit on your own doorstep, but the rules are there .... do it but Don't ...